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March 22, 2013 by Aaron Tress

Process Servers

What are Process Servers?

The United States Constitution grants Americans the right to be notified when the government summons them. As populations expanded, Sheriffs did not have time to “serve” papers and fulfill their other responsibilities. The need for process servers arose.

Process Servers in Lubbock

One can find a handful of process services in Lubbock. I use licensed process server Ken Herzog. In addition to serving papers, Ken is a people finder. Finding people can be important in family law–for example, when the whereabouts of the other spouse or parent are unknown. Ken is affordable, reliable, and he gets the job done. If you wish to contact him, his number is (806) 777-6693.

Filed Under: Children, Divorce, Marriage Tagged With: Lubbock, process server, Texas, what is a process server

March 22, 2013 by Aaron Tress

Texas Collaborative Law

Collaborative Law History

Texas Divorce Attorneys, Mental Health Professionals, & Financial PlannersOne alternative to traditional, court litigated divorces is collaborative law. Collaborative law was invented in 1990 in Minnesota in an effort to find less destructive methods of divorce. Texas adopted collaborative law in 2000. The Texas Family Code states “It is the policy of this state to encourage the peaceable resolution of disputes.”

Divorcing parties should consider the possibility of collaborative law. Collaborative law divorces offer many benefits that traditional divorces don’t.

Collaborative Law Pros

First, divorcing parties in traditional divorce proceedings are subject to a judge’s ruling. To persuade the judge to rule in their favor, both parties paint the opposing party in the least favorable light. Not only is this system highly confrontational, neither party can directly determine the outcome. Collaborative law, on the other hand, allows the divorcing parties to negotiate their outcome. This method focuses on the interests of both parties and does so in a less adversarial fashion.

Second, traditional divorce proceedings aren’t concerned with the parties’ financial and emotional needs. Besides hiring attorneys, collaborative law encourages the involvement of neutral financial and mental health professionals.

Third, collaborative law keeps couples out of court. This means that information is more private and scheduling meetings is more flexible.

Fourth, collaborative divorces can be less expensive.

Collaborative Law Cons

First, if the collaborative process fails then both divorcing parties must hire new attorneys. The collaborative process fails when an attorney fires a client, when a client fires an attorney, or when one party abandons collaborative divorce for a litigated divorce.

Second, collaborative law is not appropriate in cases of domestic violence, mental illness, or substance abuse.

The Collaborative Law Institute of Texas

The Collaborative Law Institute of Texas is the premier association of professionals who advocate the practice of collaborative law. The mission of the Institute is to “create a culture in which collaborative law is the prevailing process for the resolution of family law matters.” Their website seeks to educate the public about the benefits of collaborative law, and provides names of local legal, financial, and mental health professionals who practice collaborative law. Bill McNamara is a member of the Collaborative Law Institute of Texas.

One excellent collaborative law mental health professional in Lubbock is Ray Holt Brown, PhD PsyD.

Filed Under: Divorce Tagged With: collaborative family law, Collaborative Law, Collaborative Law Institute of Texas, divorce, Lubbock, mediation, Texas

March 8, 2013 by Aaron Tress

HBO Documentary “Don’t Divorce Me!: Kids’ Rules for Parents on Divorce”

Educational Resources for Divorcing Parents

Many good resources help educate parents on how to maintain relationships with their children during and after divorce. For example, I highly recommend Dr. Richard Warshak’s book Divorce Poison: How to Protect Your Family from Bad-mouthing and Brainwashing. Dr. Warshak gives great advice to those parents who find that their ex-spouse is trying to alienate their children from them.

Another outstanding educational resource recently entered the market. HBO released a new documentary, Don’t Divorce Me!: Kids’ Rules for Parents on Divorce. The viewer is shown the effects of divorce on children from the perspective of children. Over two dozen children from the ages of five to ten are interviewed in the documentary. The documentary seeks to impress upon the viewer that they not forget to consider the child’s perspective.

“I recommend that all my clients watch this short documentary. It will make an impact.” —Bill McNamara

 

 

Filed Under: Children, Divorce Tagged With: divorce, divorce and parenting, divorce and relationships, divorce resource, Don't Divorce Me!: Kids Rules for Parents on Divorce, HBO documentary, parents resource

March 1, 2013 by Aaron Tress

Summer Visitation

How does the noncustodial parent choose which days during the summer to spend with the children?

During the Summer months, parents may adopt creative ways to share time with their children. For example, a father is entitled to designate when to use his 30 days of possession during the summer as long as he gives written notice to the mother by April 1. If the mother, in turn, files written notice to the father by April 15, the mother is entitled to one weekend with the children during the father’s summer possession period.

The above summer notifications may look something like this.

What if the noncustodial parent does not give written notice?

If the noncustodial parent does not give written notice, the Texas Family Code defaults to the month of July.

Filed Under: Children, Custody Tagged With: child possession forms, Section 153.312, summer child possession, weekend child possession

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